I Don’t Know What to Do With an Unexpected Pregnancy: A Faith-Based Guide

Facing an unexpected pregnancy can feel overwhelming, frightening, and uncertain. You may feel lost, unsure about the future, or unsure of what decision to make. I know exactly how that feels — when I was 15, I faced an unexpected pregnancy and chose life through adoption. Today, I want to share how God transformed my life and how He can guide you too.

You Are Not Alone

It’s normal to feel scared, anxious, or unsure. Life doesn’t always go according to plan, and unexpected situations can be incredibly challenging. God’s love is constant, and there are people, communities, and resources ready to support you every step of the way.

My Story: Choosing Life at 15

At 15, I faced an unexpected pregnancy and did not have a good support system. I was scared, alone and afraid of how I would be able to take care of a baby. I knew my baby was real and couldn't go through with an abortion, although I was pressured to abort by many. I faced homelessness, loneliness and tremendous amounts of fear. I chose life and God made a way by bringing a stranger into my life to show me how to love Jesus. Through finding faith, prayer and faithful guidance, I was able to deliver a healthy baby and chose adoption.

That decision changed my life. God worked in ways I never could have imagined — providing healing, purpose, and direction. My experience taught me that even in the hardest moments, God makes a way to choose life. I am now here to help others that face uncertainty, pain, trauma and need the same guidance to Jesus that I did.

Take a Breath (I know, easier said than done when you think your life is falling apart), then seek Guidance

You don’t have to make all the decisions immediately. Take time to research, visit pregnancy centers (I would encourage centers that support life), seek counsel from trusted mentors, faith leaders, or Christian counselors who can provide perspective rooted in love and understanding. What may feel impossible to you now, can become possible with the help from God. With God all things are possible.

Explore Your Options With Support

There are resources and communities ready to help you navigate an unexpected pregnancy:

• Supportive Family & Friends: Loved ones can provide emotional, practical, and financial support.

• Faith-Based Counseling: Catholic and Christian life coaching can guide your decisions with hope and clarity.

• Medical & Practical Care: Access prenatal care, counseling, and community programs to ensure your health and well-being. Many non-profits provide free services for people that have low income.

• Pro-Life Support Services: Organizations exist to help women facing unexpected pregnancies, offering guidance, encouragement, and practical resources. I would encourage you to avoid Planned Parenthood, from my experience they often push abortion and in my case refused to let me see my ultrasound until I chose if I wanted to abort. Planned Parenthood and other centers that do abortions can financially profit off of body parts from your baby. Please do research before going to a center.

Faith and Hope in Difficult Times

Prayer, reflection, and leaning on God (even if it is your very first time!) can bring peace, comfort and clarity to your confusing situation. Scripture, mentorship, and connecting with Christian communities can remind you that you are never alone — even in moments of fear and uncertainty.

Buried to Redeemed Is Here to Help

At Buried to Redeemed, I offer faith-based guidance, Catholic and Christian life coaching, and resources for women navigating unexpected pregnancies. My goal is to provide encouragement, practical help, and a message of hope while walking alongside you in faith. I can understand the confusion, pain, fear and worry with unexpected pregnancy. I can also understand the beauty of life since I was an unexpected child and am so thankful for my life!! I grew up poor and had hardships but God turned the pain into beauty and I am so thankful for each hardship because it led me to my life I have now!

• Catholic & Christian Life Coaching: Gain clarity, confidence, and peace in your decisions.

• Career & Life Transitions Support: Plan for your future with guidance rooted in faith. There can be resources available to get skills for a career at places like Job Corps, get your GED or apply to college. I'd be happy to share some of this information to support your journey!

• Pro-Life Resources: Access safe and supportive options for both you and your child.

There is Hope

Even in moments of fear or uncertainty, hope exists. God’s love is unwavering, and there are compassionate people ready to support you. Like my story shows, it’s possible to choose life, experience healing, and see God make a way even in the hardest situations.

Bible Verses to Help Comfort You:

• Jeremiah 1:5
  "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart."
  ✅ Perfect for highlighting the sacredness of life and God’s purpose even before birth.

• Psalm 139:13-14
  "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made."
  ✅ Emphasizes God’s intentional care for each life.

• Proverbs 3:5-6
  "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight."
  ✅ Encouraging for someone feeling unsure about what to do.

• Isaiah 41:10
  "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."
  ✅ Offers comfort, courage, and reassurance.

If you are facing an unexpected pregnancy and don’t know what to do, reach out today. Buried to Redeemed is here to walk with you, guide you, and share the hope and support that faith provides way.